Ingram Family

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Home, Sweet Home




We have an amazing peace at finally being home. God has been so good to us. His hand of protection has held us up and covered us through this entire, amazing journey. We look forward to seeing what He still has in store for us as we become a family of four.

We left our hotel at about 9:00pm to travel to the airport. You can't imagine how relieved I was when we arrived and saw that it was well lit. I couldn't get over the last time we were there in the pitch black darkness and the storm, locked out. Unorganized chaos would be the best description for the airport. No one seemed to know where they should be. Finally, Marty asked a lady who worked there, and she directed us to the other side of the airport to get in the "line" there.

Once we checked in, we had about 2 hours to wait. It was an endurance test. We were all so pooped. Finally, we boarded and headed to Seoul, South Korea. We went through immigration and then found something for the boys to eat. Marty had Dunkin' Donuts and Isaac had french fries. Our flight from Seoul was delayed about 45 minutes once we were on board. (What's 45 minutes, when you are already going to be trapped for 13 and a half hours.)

On this flight, we had seats in the middle section of the plane. We shared the set of four with a really sweet man from Atlanta. He had been in Malaysia helping set up a Christian school, I think, for street kids. Isaac spent a lot of time watching the tv on the back of the seat in front of him. He ate pretty well and slept about 6 hours. The flight was very smooth, and I have to hand it to Korean Air, they really have it together. One of our favorite features on the plane was the Skymap you could access on the tv. It showed a map of where our plane was enroute. There was also a screen giving other information about speed, flight time, and anticipated time of arrival at your next destination.

We ran into one more glitch in Atlanta. Because Isaac will not be an official US citizen until we refinalize his adoption in the US, he had to be processed at immigration. We missed our connecting flight to Charlotte. It was about more than we could take. It seemed we were so close we could almost touch Anna Claire, but we couldn't.

After finishing up in immigration, we went to the rebooking counter to get another flight to Charlotte. The attendant there was so sweet. Delta must take the kindest people they have and let them work that counter. She booked us on a flight to Charlotte at 2:44. Our other flight was at 12:35. So, we only lost about 2 hours. The flight was packed. God was so good to get us seats on it. We didn't all get to sit together, but I believe I would have been willing to just hold on to the wing as long as they would get me home soon.

The flight attendants were hysterical. I have never been on a flight like it. Before we took off, one of the male stewards was walking up and down the aisle wearing "Bubba teeth". (If you are ot from the South, you may not know what these are.) Anyway, he pretended to steal some peoples' seats, etc. Meanwhile, the head steward kept making jokes over the intercom. It was just what we needed.

Our greeting in the airport couldn't have been sweeter. I think we dragged Isaac as fast as he could go to get to baggage claim. I'm not sure his feet even touched the ground. It was so good to see our family. Isaac's sister, Aunt Cindy, and all his grandparents were there. They brought him a big stuffed car and his favorite candy, Skittles. We could have held Anna Claire forever. Speaking of Anna Claire, she and Isaac connected at once. They were holding hands, hugging, and running around. You would never know it was the first time they had ever met. While Marty and our dads waited for our luggage, Isaac lost his mind a little. I think it was all just overwhelming. Plus, according to his body's clock, he was supposed to be fast asleep.

Once we had all of our luggage, we headed to the car. Isaac let Aunt Cindy carry him there, and she was on Cloud Nine. We were concerned about how he would feel about being confined in a car seat. He climbed right in though, and let me buckle him in. He loves to ride, and he just chattered away. about 20 minutes from home, he fell asleep.

Once we arrived at the house, he was ready to go again. There was a wonderful welcome home sign with balloons. It was so precious to us. Sharon and Inga also brought supper. (I was so glad there were no noodles or rice involved.) Isaac toured the yard with Anna Claire. Karen, Aiden, and Zach Brown came over to meet him. Then, we went inside. He loved his room and began playing with a few of the toys there before the tour continued. He was thrilled to see the pool. He was familiar with that from the hotel. He and Anna Claire also played on the swing set.

We ate our dinner with Grandma and Pop before they left for the hotel. Then, Anna Claire helped Isaac ride his new bike from Tammy Palmer. It was precious. He also rode his motorized scooter (think Barbie Jeep, but motorcycle). I guess he felt like he was right back on the streets of Hanoi. Of course, there was no horn blowing or 3 zillion people. Our neighbors the Emery's walked by and met him. All I could think of was how elated I was to be home.

Then, it was time for baths. Isaac jumped right in and began to play. He still loves a bath. Afterwards, it was bedtime. Marty walked him around the house to show him where all our beds are. He wasn't thrilled about being in his own little room. We left his door open and decided to see how things would go. He stayed in his bed, but didn't go to sleep. All of a sudden, I heard him. He was quite upset, because our cat Molly had crawled into his bed and under the covers. ( I don't like that myself.) He was shook up for a while after that. Marty came in and slept on the futon in his room. Then, he went to sleep. We assume we will have to do that for a while until he is more comfortable sleeping on his own.

We all slept through the night peacefully. Did I mention how good it is to be home? I woke up this morning at about 5:30. After reading my Bible a little, I decided I wasn't going to be able to go back to sleep. I got up and went downstairs to watch Charles Stanly. His message was on fear. Boy, do I wish I'd heard it before we left. Anna Claire was up at about 6:30. We snuggled some before the boys got up. Everybody was so well rested. We have had breakfast and the kids (boy does that plural sound weird to me) are playing as hard as they can go.

Later, our families are coming over to cook out and spend more time with us.

We cannot say enough how much we appreciate you all keeping up with us during our journey. We pray God has blessed you as much as He has us. Your comments and prayers were used by God to keep us going and make us not feel so far from home. Please continue to pray for us as we all figure out our place in The Ingram Four. We are looking forward to things being "normal".

Enjoy, these pictures of the new siblings. We'll post more as the days go by. We love you all. God bless.

12 Comments:

Blogger Wendy said...

Welcome home group! We are so elated to have you back so very close to all of us. Call when you get a chance.
You are in our prayers for your adjustment period.
David and Wendy Lee

September 16, 2007 at 9:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Absolutely precious!! We are so thankful you all are home together. Thank you Lord!! God has done great things so far and I know He has many more good things in store for you. (Makes me think of the good ole hymn…To God Be The Glory….great things He has done…..) Thanks for sharing the journey with everyone. As I told you this morning it has been so additive for us. I would check your blog first thing in the morning and seemed to check it all day long. We can’t wait to see you all real soon. Enjoy, time flies! (Anna Claire and Isaac looked like they have been growing up together….absolutely some of the sweetest pictures I have ever seen!!)

Prayers and love,
Inga & Cecil

September 16, 2007 at 10:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey! We thought a lot about you all yesterday and were really excited to hear you were home. After Sheila talked to Mama, Mama called me and let me know everything. The pictures of Anna Claire and Isaac are wonderful. It is amazing how he has bonded with everyone like he has always been there...we know who took care of that don't we? Congratulations again, and I may call sometime when you've had time for everything to settle down.
We love ya bunches,
Debbie and Family

September 16, 2007 at 10:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have thoroughly enjoyed following your trip! And I LOVE the picture of Anna Claire holding/hugging Isaac (standing)... that is so precious! I'm sure it is amazing to finally be home and have the adoption "almost" completed.

September 16, 2007 at 12:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

WELCOME HOME!!!! Those pictures of Anna Claire & Isaac are so priceless!! The one of your family of 4 is sweet, too.

We're glad you're home. Thanks SO MUCH for taking a package to our Noah! We got updated pictures of him on Friday & that was a welcome treat!

We'll be praying that your jetlag is minimal & that you settle into a new normal routine quickly!

Sheri, David, Micah & Noah-in VN (Holt)

September 16, 2007 at 12:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

We are so happy that you are home safely. AC is going to be a wonderful sister. Take care and you will remain in our prayers. Jo Ann and Fred

September 16, 2007 at 3:44 PM  
Blogger maxhelcal said...

Welcome home! So happy to see your two loving each other so much right away! How adorable they both look! What a lovely family you have!

I know you'll be spending the next couple weeks just sitting back and trying to take it all in. I had a hard time believing we had actually gone and came back AND how wonderful our daughter was and how much she loved us right away and us her. There's so much to look back on and the entire journey is such a miracle in itself.

God Bless you guys! (actually, he already has hasn't he? :-) )

~Michelle

September 16, 2007 at 5:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When I met the two of you fifteen or so years ago in Mars Hill, none of us had any idea that today would happen!! There have been so many WONDERFUL "todays" for you...your wedding day...your first home...Anna Claire joining your family...and now Isaac joining you too. The Lord is so good. He knows your hearts and blesses you every day.
Love to all,
Susanne

September 17, 2007 at 9:15 AM  
Blogger Jen Barbee said...

Congratulations on your safe arrival home. I know what you mean about dealing with missing your flight. We got messed up in Hong Kong and arrived in Charlotte about 6 hours later than we thought. They originally told us at the counter that we would have to spend the night in Chicago. I guess when they saw my head spin around like the exorcist they found a way to squeeze us on another flight. The thought of spending one more night without my 3 kids almost pushed me over the edge. ( By that point I was standing with one foot over already.)
Many blessings to you as you begin your new life together. You have so much to look forward to. You will be amazed by how much more Isaac will come alive each and every day.
Jennifer Barbee

September 17, 2007 at 1:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So happy that you're home safe and sound. I love the pictures of the kids- they really do look like they have bonded so quickly. Can't believe that you are home and now can begin your family of four. Thanks for letting us all be a part of your miraculous journey. I'm so happy for you all and will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers!angie

September 17, 2007 at 8:48 PM  
Blogger D4ew said...

Welcome home.... The cycle continues as we are another Albemarle family just beginning our adoption process. Please contact me through email so we can meet IRL and share some stories.... Congratulations on finishing one part and beginning another part of this journey.

September 19, 2007 at 6:58 AM  
Blogger The Family said...

Mr. Ingram,
Hi, Everything is going good in school. We miss you and hope you get home soon and safely. Hope you are having fun and best luck. the pictures are nice. My mom is going to make us a family blog space so I will give you the address soon. Best Wishes, William :)

September 19, 2007 at 4:55 PM  

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